The Metrosexual Man vs. The Cowboy- What Do Women Want?
The Metrosexual Man vs. The Cowboy- What DO Women Want?He always looks perfectly put together. He can be in a t-shirt and jeans or heading out to a black-tie event. His hair never has a bad day. His nails are clean and buffed.
His clothes are perfectly pressed and exquisitely coordinated. He smells like flowers and spice. Is he gay? No, he's the new metrosexual man.As many of you know by now, the term "metrosexual" was coined by a journalist (and gay man) named Mark Simpson, to describe a new kind of urban male who is straight, but in touch with his feminine side and not afraid to show it. Essentially, metrosexuals are guys who take on behaviors and show an interest in things that have traditionally belonged in the female domain.You may have a metrosexual brother, male friend or boyfriend (ex). These are the guys you can shop till you drop with.
They can discuss fashion, will notice your great new shoes, buy their grooming products from the same places you do and have no qualms about having a manicure, pedicure or facial. You can actually TALK to these guys about something other than sports, cars and other traditionally male interests. These are the guys you can take to the opera, symphony and ballet. The perfect man, right? Depends on whom you talk to.Let's step back a minute and look at the where and how of the existence of the metrosexual man. Simply put, he is a by-product of feminism and the changing roles and related expectations of women.
As women have moved into (previously) male dominated environments and roles, it has caused a shift in the male-female balance. Women are now active participants in industry, politics and the professions- to name a few. However, as they have left their old jobs as homemakers and full-time domestic caregivers, they left a lot of empty space to be filled. Childcare providers and the domestic cleaning industry could provide some of this. The problem was all the "other" stuff women had always done.Men were therefore called upon to contribute more to the raising of children, housework, cooking, shopping, etc.
Their sons were being exposed a new role model, a dad who took on jobs and chores that had traditionally belonged to mom. Young boys themselves were also being tapped to do housework and help with siblings, exposing them to a new way of being a male in our society. Women had become more independent and financially and professionally successful. Men had become more domestic and had to soften their style as they moved into more traditionally feminine roles.A new social order had evolved that worked for everyone, right? Not necessarily. We never take on something new without giving something up.
So, what has been discarded? Clearly defined social roles and the expectations that come with them- for starters. Suddenly there was a new blueprint for how men and women should relate- especially in the world of dating. However, it was unclear and depending upon whom you asked, you would get a different answer. Usher in the confusion and frustration surrounding dating in the new millennium.Women ask questions such as:* who asks who out* who calls who* who pays* who makes decisions about where to go, etc.* What are the expectations at the end of the date* how soon should we become intimateWomen comment on:* his lack of initiative in calling or asking her out* his expectation that they will go dutch* how he never offers to pick her up* his overall lack of assertiveness* his saying he will call, but not following through* his too polished style which lacks a certain spark of masculinity* his taking longer to get ready than she does* his crudeness or over aggressive style* his expectation that they will have sexMen ask questions such as:* what do women want* why should a guy have to ask a girl out* why should the guy always pay* why do women say they want sensitivity, etc., but see guys like that as wimps* why do women give out such mixed signals in general* why do women seem to reject nice guys and go for jerks* why can't a woman be the aggressorMen comment on:* women acting spoiled* women wanting their independence, etc. but not wanting equal responsibility and weight* women expecting a lot from men, but offering little in return* women not knowing what they want* women playing games* women's attraction to "bad boys"Both women and men verbalize that they are ok with the current roles that have evolved for them in our society, yet I hear both talk wistfully about how it was in previous generations.
Back then; everyone KNEW what was expected from him or her. Life was predictable. Dating was much simpler and "safer". Men were men and women were raised to be wives and homemakers.We have gained something and we have lost something. One thing for sure, we can never have it both ways.What's the answer? It is never simple.
However, it does involve better communication in general between men and women. Singles need to clarify for themselves (first), what kind of partner they seek and what their expectations from a relationship really are. Once a person is clear about what they must have and what they can't live with, they need to go out and HONESTLY seek that. Knowing what you want is good. If you turn off someone by your frankness, he/she was not the someone for you.So, begin with a self-assessment.
Then go out and pursue interests and environments, which maximize your chances of meeting compatible singles. And remember, there is no perfect person. He may be overly fussy with his hair, take longer in the bathroom than most women, be less ambitious in his work life than you are and put your cooking to shame. However, if he's sensitive to YOUR needs, easy to talk to and fun to be with, great with kids and very supportive of your goals, he may be the guy of your dreams..
How to Start a Debt Reduction Plan
Copyright 2006 Stephen Ashton
Whether you simply want to pay off your mortgage or car loan sooner, or you've run up a huge pile of credit card debt, starting a debt reduction plan is always a good idea.
Follow these five steps to setting up your own debt reduction plan:
1. Find out where your money is really going. You can't cut your expenses if you don't understand where you're spending your money in the first place.
Pull out all of your receipts, credit card bills, and bank statements for the last 3 ? 6 months.
Make a list of everything you spend money on, by breaking things down into categories (food, entertainment, clothing, travel, bills, interest, taxes, etc.).
Then figure out what percentage of your income is going towards each group of expenses.
While you can't change certain expenses, you can change most of them.
Decide what general areas you can cut expenses in, and which areas you should be spending...
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Delicious Knickers Features 1930s Glamour from Aloe Loungewear
Bedford, UK (ContentDesk) April 11, 2006 -- Delicious Knickers on-line lingerie boutique launches its Spring Collection featuring pure 1930s glamour from Aloe Loungewear as worn by Dita von Teese. Capturing the elegance of an era thats infamous for its decadence and sheer delight in living, Aloe jostles ruffled silk knickers with opaque kaftans and italian palazzo pants to entice, allure and seduce. With a hint of Spring in the air, now is the time to look at ways of crossing boundaries and wearing pure lingerie as stylish outerwear. If this is a look that appeals, then look no further than Aloe at Delicious Knickers. Take the black padded silk cropped jacket and team it with jeans for a hip style that will take you to the theatre or edgy supper party.
For anniversary weekends away, you could do no better picking out a pair of Italian palazzo pants with matching camisole.
And if Audrey Hepburn glamour appeals the kimono wrap dress is right up your street...
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10 Tips on How to Give Yourself the Best Chance for Success on a First Date- Especially if You Have
Copyright 2006 Heartmind Connection, LLC
Let's say during the last couple of weeks you have communicated with someone of interest via emails and several telephone conversations.
There is obvious "phone chemistry" and there is a mutual interest in meeting each other.
You both agree to meet in person -now for the moment of truth!
1. Visualize Success:
Think about your wonderful attributes and not your faults.
Take an inventory of your values, skills, talents, interests and "heart".
Leave all your negative thoughts at home.
2. Keep Your Expectations in Check:
Don't start imagining yourself at the alter with your date.
Ask yourself these 3 questions: Do I like the person? Does the conversation flow easily with one another? Is there any kind of attraction?
That's it.
If you answer yes to these questions, then be open to seeing the person again.
3. Dress Appropriately...
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NBC's Gideon Horowitz at Ushers' Record Release Party
(ContentDesk) March 29, 2004--Gideon Horowitz from NBC's The Restaurant, managed by Steven Calapai at EMPI was a recent guest on the red carpet at Superstar Usher's record release party at new club "Boulevard" in New York City. Dressed in Gerbaud, Gideon did the red carpet with the biggest names in entertainment such as "Treach" from Naughty By Nature, Michael Rappaport from the new movie, "First last Kiss" starring Will Smith andd of course "Usher". AOL was on hand to sponsor the event as well as notables, Wire Image and Pepe Jeans owner Jonathan Crespo.Celeste Miller Public Relations handled some of the PR for the evening.Everyone had a great time and was very impressed with Gideon and USHER!Contact:Steven Calapai-MANAGINGEMPI451 Greenwich Street7th. FloorNew York NY 100131-212-609-09001-212-609-0901-Fax.
NBC's Gideon Horowitz at Ushers' Record Release Party
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Searching Tips For Womens Casual Shoes
Casual shoes for women are without a doubt the most comfortable shoes you can ever put on your feet. It doesn't matter what kind of foot pain you may be suffering from -corns, flat feet, fallen arches, once you find the right pair of womens casual shoes; you're not going to want to ever leave home without them. Casual shoes for women could be the most versatile shoe you can have in your closet. Casual shoes can virtually be worn with any type of clothing. This includes, but is not limited to tee shirts, shorts, jeans, sweat suits, sweaters and yes, even swim suits.
So, the million dollar question - where do women look when looking for designer casual shoes and what is considered comfortable? There are many factors to consider when looking for casual women's shoes but they depend on your lifestyle needs as to what factors are important to you. Whatever your choices may be, the ultimate goal is to find that perfect casual shoe which is most comfortable to you. Casual Shoe ConsiderationsThe...
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Abby Z Prepares Plus-Size Fashion Extravaganza
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE (ContentDesk) September 9, 2005 -- Abby Z. -- premier designer to Hollywood's women of size - will be debuting her latest collection of sexy, fun and fabulous clothing for today's plus size woman with a star-studded fashion show on September 13, 2005 at the Canal Room on West Broadway during NYC Fashion Week. It will be her first runway show. The spirit of the event, "It's Good To Be Me" will embody Abby's philosophy -
it is very empowering to see women of all sizes embracing their curves and being fashionable. Her line is just over a year old, but it has fast become a favorite among celebrities.
Many of these A-listers have already agreed to be a part of this exciting evening of class, style and sophistication. R & B songstress Angie Stone, actresses Rosario Dawson (accompanied on the runway by her mother Isabella), Ashlie Atkinson, Violator Entertainment's Mona Scott,
gossip queen Flo Anthony and Emmy-nominated Camryn Manheim will all...
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Got A Closet Full of Trendy Clothes? Watch Out!
You just bought a pair of Ugg boots to go with your hip hugger jeans and trucker cap. And that's not all. You scour the fashion magazines for the latest trends, then go running out to fill your closet. Trendy is good, right? Uh, not so fast. Keeping abreast of the trends in fashion is essential to not looking outdated, but having a closet full of trendy clothes can quickly turn into a big waste of time and money, unless you're Paris Hilton.
Maybe Paris can afford to buy and discard clothes like candy, but the average woman needs a wardrobe with some staying power.All the fashion experts agree that you should build your wardrobe around classic pieces like: blazers, tailored suits, neutral bottoms and tops. Classic clothing lasts for years and is very versatile. On the other hand, trends come and go. Those Ugg boots you just bought along with the trucker caps are already pass? (according to fashionistas in the know). You can either give them away to Good Will or keep wearing them...
Got A Closet Full of Trendy Clothes? Watch Out!
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What's In A Name? When It Comes To Your Business, Plenty!
Q: How important is the name of a business? Should the name of a business reflect what the business does or is it better to come up with something catchy and easy to remember?
-- Randy P.
A: What's in a name? When it comes to your business, Randy, a lot more than you might think. In fact, deciding on a business name is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. The right business name can help you rise above the crowd while the wrong business name can leave you trampled in the rush.
With the economy in a slump and competition on the rise, now more than ever it is important that you put considerable thought into coming up with the perfect name for your business.
Unfortunately, this is a task that is easier said than done.
It seems like all the good business names are either married or? no wait, that's a different subject, but the analogy holds true.
We live in an age when a business called "The Body...
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